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The Greatest Gift
Kathleen
Corey Rahme
Methuen City Councilor (Central District)
With the holiday upon us, the giving spirit
is apparent. But some of us give of ourselves on a
regular basis and it is not reserved for a special time
of year. It is the gift of oneself that is the greatest
gift. I am thinking specifically of a young man named
David Francescone of Methuen. He is a member of the
Methuen Youth Corps and one of approximately 50 young
people, aged 9-17, who do community service on a regular
basis.
A junior at Methuen High School, Francescone approached
me in the fall and informed me he was looking for a
leadership project on his National Honor Society
application. As it turns out, the mother of a
special needs student, Michael, had just notified me. You
see, Michael, age eleven, had been on a waiting list for
more than five years for the Big Brother, Big Sister
organization. Michaels mother took a chance
and called the Methuen Youth Corps to see if there were
any volunteers willing to work with Michael to improve
his reading skills and play computer games with
him. What she was looking for was someone to mentor her
son and provide companionship. What she found was more
than any of us bargained for.
As
part of his leadership project, David Francescone set out
to gather a few of his very reliable friends to work out
a rotation to be with Michael on a weekly basis. We all
thought it would be best for a group of students to share
time with Michael. David gathered his friends Tu Pham,
Reynaldo Santana, Deven Neel, and Michelle Abbasciano -
all juniors at Methuen High School. They take turns
meeting Michael at the Nevins Library as part
of a weekly routine. I had the opportunity to go to
the library to witness this encounter and what I found
was amazing. I saw a group of Methuen Youth Corps members
all playing with Michael. They enjoy his company so much
they all show up regularly. When I was there,
Michael was making a very creative card on the computer
for his mother. The Methuen Youth Corps members
seemed to be learning a few computer tricks from Michael
as well. This is an ongoing effort by a group of very
giving, young people. From what I can see, everyone in
the group is benefiting from this project. The Methuen
Youth Corps members learn about volunteerism and
mentoring. David Francescone has learned about leadership
and managing a project. Francescone reports, It
reminds me of why people should always try to get out in
the world and experience community service. When I
asked him about these experiences, he said, Its
great to spend a few hours with such an interesting
child. I enjoy every minute of it.
Another Methuen Youth
Corps member gave another wonderful gift this past fall.
When word got out that a city resident, Mrs. Ouellette,
needed her handicap ramp painted because neither she nor
her husband, also wheelchair bound, would be able to
negotiate their chairs and paint at the same time,
eighth-grader Laura McCann , and her mother decided to
take action. They went to Mrs. Ouellettes house and
painted the ramp in one day for her. A very grateful Mrs.
Ouellette offered to pay. Of course, the Methuen Youth
Corps does not take money! One simple gesture certainly
made a huge difference to Mrs. Ouellette. This
mother-daughter experience is something they will
remember for a lifetime.
Other members of the
Methuen Youth Corps have been busy at the Trauma
Intervention Program (TIP) located in Methuen. Headed by
Jayan Landry Conlin, TIP is a program that serves
surrounding communities and responds to trauma
situations by providing counseling and assistance to
victims. On a regular basis, Samantha OToole and
Analisa Faro, both eighth graders, and DJ Beauregard, a
sophomore at Methuen High School, assist in whatever
Conlin needs - from stuffing envelopes for the annual
appeal to decorating the office Christmas tree for
the volunteer party. Conlin is very appreciative of the
Methuen Youth Corps. She treats them to pizza and I heard
she even served shrimp and chocolate-covered strawberries
once! The Methuen Youth Corps volunteers benefit from
Conlins example of volunteerism. Faro enjoys her
time at TIPand she told me, I like working there
because Jayan is a wonderful person and it is so amazing
on how many people they help. Working there has taught me
a lot about people volunteering their time for such good
causes. The world would be so much better with more
devoted people like Jayan. It has also trained me for
office support. I enjoy working with people as a team.
What does all this
mean? It means that a few hours of your time in the realm
of volunteerism can make a huge difference in your
community. It means that our young people are learning to
give of themselves. It is the promise for a bright
future. It is the Golden Rule of Golden Rules. We are
truly blessed to have young people in our midst who see
that the gift is of oneself and it should be given
regularly, not just once a year.
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